I feel undermined, hurt, rejected. Such is the awfulness of things, a whole catalogue of difficulties recently, that I become bitter, refusing to let go, refusing even to accept what has happened. An overwhelming sense of indignation and pain remains. Danger, keep out! It is the negative reactions which are our greatest enemy. I could have reacted otherwise, even though my reactions were perfectly understandable under the circumstances. But where these experiences of pain or conflict go unresolved,